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The month of blur

Originally posted 2017-12-05 14:09:25. This past month has seriously been a blur. It’s been a little more than a month when I think about it. If you go back to October when I had my mini-stroke so that’s almost 2 months. Geez… Biological father passed away on November 14th. Dusty and I had gotten up early that morning to make the trip to see him when the so-called girlfriend called me to tell me he…

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This is bullshit

Originally posted 2023-11-29 10:27:25. This was not how I wanted to start my week after Thanksgiving. My husband calls me on his way to work to tell me that the truck told him to immediately turn it off. SO… he pulled over right before entering the base to go to work. It said oil something. I called my bff’s hubbie and got him to get up and go get him and then tow the truck…

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22 resources

Originally posted 2017-11-28 00:42:16. “I don’t like regular counseling.” “There’s no help out there.” “I need help but the VA takes too long.” Well look at this list straight out of our resource guide! Mental health, ptsd resources & retreats Headstrong Project http://getheadstrong.org/get-help/ http://www.mentalhealth.va.gov/ http://afterdeployment.dcoe.mil/ http://battletap.org/home.aspx Home For female veterans! http://www.graceafterfire.org/ http://maketheconnection.net/ Common signs of PTSD and what to do http://maketheconnection.net/conditions/ptsd#1 Mental Health Self Assessments http://afterdeployment.dcoe.mil/military_pathways http://www.ptsd.va.gov/ Coping with Deployments Families Course http://www.redcross.org/find-help/military-families/deployment-services/coping-deployment-course Post deployment…

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Originally posted 2017-11-28 00:39:00. My husband took this picture of my biological father and I while I was talking to him, letting him know that I was there with him. The morning he passed away Dusty and I were getting ready to make the 2 hour (one-way) trip to see him. I was told he passed at 4:20 in the morning on November 14th 2017. At least he’s able to be with my grandparents and…

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Gone to work

Originally posted 2023-11-16 09:30:21. Do you ever just miss your spouse while they are gone to work? I mean there isn’t anything different that is going on or spouse isn’t gone for anything out of the norm. Well … this is where I am right now. I just miss my husband more than the norm. He is gone to work just like any normal day of the week but for whatever reason I miss him…

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He came close

Originally posted 2020-06-16 12:44:24. My husband keeps the bandana that our dog, Charlie, wore around her neck on his work bag. He was leaving work last night and noticed her bandana not on his bag. He traced his steps, checked the truck, the locker room and every place he had been to try and find it. He said he even looked several times trying to find it. He got home and was in panic mode…

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Loving Day

Originally posted 2020-06-12 17:54:31. Today is a BEAUTIFUL day! It’s “Loving Day” 💕💕The day in US history when the Supreme Court ruled to strike down the 16 state ban on interracial marriage 💗💗💗. 🖐🏼🤚🏾Multi-Color is beautiful! Share your photos here if you have an interracial marriage!

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Is this near the end?

Originally posted 2017-11-17 10:06:19. I got a phone call from my bio father’s “girlfriend” just a bit ago. He has been in the hospital for several weeks now. It seems last night he took a turn for the worse. He stopped wanting to eat ~ even if being fed. They are considering a feeding tube. He spiked a fever of 102 and feel that he may have a touch of pneumonia. So they have started…

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Snail’s pace

Originally posted 2019-04-24 16:43:01. Grieving while being the mother and caregiver to someone with autism is hard as hell. Dusty watches me 24/7. He sees me crying, mad, frustrated, etc I can’t escape. All the while trying to repair hurricane florence damage. I have been going to my local massage envy every few weeks for a deep tissue massage. It has helped tremendously from a physical standpoint but not really helped mentally. I need an…

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