First off I hope you and whoever you arw with had an enjoyable Thanksgiving no matter how you choose to celebrate the day.
I decided this year to go to my daughter’s house for Thanksgiving.
I cooked two different sweet potato casserole dishes, green bean casserole and little smokies with bacon bourbon barbecue sauce.
I purchased the ham, turkey, pecan pie, sweet potato pie (because I ran out of sweet potatoes) and a red velvet cake.
To which I didn’t even taste the ham or any of the desserts.
Why?
Unfortunately everything ended on a bad note.
My daughter came to me about an hour and some change before I left to say she couldn’t get in touch with her bio father.
Her half sisters were supposed to come after we left as well as their bio father.
The agreement was after we left.
Well the one sister gave the address to the bio father and she was told he was on the way there, while we were still there.
I cannot handle being around them.
I know the sisters had nothing to do with the wrongs of their father.
But I can’t handle it.
I do not want to add further confusion to an already confusing situation to my son.
I do not think anyone understands that.
Why further complicate things for my son.
The one sister ambushed him at the baby shower, that was enough already.
Well today, after some of the mess with the bio had calmed and my daughter spoke to them and I said what time we’d leave…
I heardy son-in-laws mom say someone was in the path.
At first thought, I thought it was him.
Well it was the other sister.
How in the fuck!
I lost it!
Respect me and my family enough and show up and the agreed upon time.
I immediately told my son to go get in the truck so we can go.
My nephew and his friend came with us too, so they went and jumped in the truck with my son.
I didn’t know if their bio father was up the path or down the street.
Take in mind this was well over and hour before the time I said I’d leave.
I had already said we wouldn’t spend the night so she could enjoy the other part of her day how she chose to.
I lost my shit I admit. Maybe I should have reacted different but it is what it is.
I feel like this was intentional, on who’s part I don’t know.
I’m fucking tired!
We are home now. My foot/ankle needs to elevate and well so do I.
Have a good rest of your holiday weekend.
